Lemuria Reads Mississippians: Willie Morris

September 14, 2010 by

A late Saturday afternoon at my desk, I looked out my window, and there stood Willie. He was just back from New York, as excited as a kid could be about seeing the screening for My Dog Skip. He glowed with charm and excitement about what was to come. That was my last conversation with Willie. He died the following Monday.

Now being sentimental as Willie often was, I think fondly about the wonderful baseball prayer he wrote for my little league team. The result was a colorful book illustrated by another loving pal, Barry Moser. Willie’s gifts to Lemuria were many and generous.

If only that Saturday visit, ever so special, could have been longer.

Millsaps College is featuring David Rae Morris, Willie’s son, with H. C. Porter in “A Katrina Perspective.” Morris’ photographic exhibit “Wake of the Flood: Katrina at Five” documents the city of New Orleans and the Mississippi Gulf Coast after Katrina’s landfall and five years later. Click here for more details.

Click here to see all of “Lemuria Reads Mississippians.”

Editor Neil White will be signing at Lemuria on  Thursday, October 28th.

Reserve your copy online or call the bookstore 601/800.366.7619.

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When the Past Is Present by David Richo

September 13, 2010 by

When the Past Is Present: Healing the Emotional Wounds  That Sabotage Our Relationships

by David Richo

Shambhala  (2008)

Earlier this year, I read an illuminating study on our responsibilities for our interactions with others, especially those we care the most about. While slowly reading this emotionally challenging book, I was thinking I would restart immediately when I finished. I couldn’t, I felt like my psyche had been put through a washing machine and needed hanging on the clothes line to dry. The present seemed my time to share this blog.

Transference is when we tend to go through life simply casting new people in roles of key people. This defense is joined by projection (mistaking internal experience for an external one) and displacement (mistaking one person for another). Richo’s book is about noticing mindfully, staying away from attachment, trying not to carry the past into the present (perpetuating our old scenarios and trying to recreate them).

Integrating our experiences means reshaping our lives in accord with what we’ve gained from addressing, processing and resolving. Digging deep, getting into and trying to understand the guts of our past (shadow work).

In writing about this book, I could easily be excessive. In my review copy, it’s seriously underlined, many pages with corners turned down and my code of importance (5 stars=max) are bountiful. This book is wise and helpful.

I feel learning from my past relationships (childhood, teen, parent, work, etc.) is critical for fulfillment in my older years. The processes Richo clearly states here are immeasurably beneficial to current relationship interaction. This is an important book.

David Richo has a new book coming out soon. I eagerly await its release. I’ve made a request to Shambhala to send David to Jackson on a book tour. If you consider this meaningful, please share your feelings with David Richo here and Shambhala here.


Curtis Wilkie’s The Fall of the House of Zeus: The Mysterious Planter from Greenwood

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The Fall of the House of Zeus by Curtis Wilkie (Crown, October 19, 2010)

“Blake once described himself as a ‘plunger and promoter,’ but basically he claimed to be a planter.” (page 38)

“Blake held no political portfolio, but his association with Senator Eastland enabled him to obtain government loans easily as he built an agricultural empire. Some of his transactions proved to be as puzzling as the mystery about him.” (page 39)

“In November 1993, after Blake helped head off Scruggs’s indictment in the asbestos case, Scruggs began to make significant loans to Blake. At first he gave him $15,000 a month, but those payments then increased to $25,000 a month. The loans were unsupported by any collateral, other than Blake’s signature on a note and his promise to keep Scruggs informed on political developments.” (page 43)

Reserve a signed copy online or call the store at 800/601.366.7619.

Curtis Wilkie will be signing on Thursday, Oct. 21st.

Click here to see other excerpts from The Fall of the House of Zeus.

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Bonhoeffer (Part II)

September 12, 2010 by

Well, I know one thing. I won’t be forgetting this book or this man for a very long time. I also think that everybody needs to read it and here’s why.

It seems to me that we are living in a very strange time. There are wars happening all around us and to us–the economic world we knew just a few years ago is gone. There are vast oil spills in our oceans and meteors that seem to be passing awfully close to earth. We have world class athletes who have all taken steroids and lied about it under oath and politicians who don’t seem to know what in the world they believe and will change their minds or their party if it will be beneficial. Everyone strives for political correctness so no one wants to take a stand on whether or not a mosque should be built down the street from Ground Zero. I’m not sure which side is right but I get dizzy watching everyone hop back and forth, terrified to land. No one wants to be definitive for fear of offending someone else.

Where are all the great leaders? Those rare men and women who stand out in times of great world crisis? Beats me. I don’t think I’ve seen neither hide nor hair of anyone even remotely ‘great’ in quite a while. I don’t mean to be a cynic, it’s just the truth.

Well, Bonhoeffer was great.

I’m not going to tell you everything that happens in this book but suffice it to say, in the end, he dies. Well, so what? A lot of people died in WWII; many were hung in concentration camps. What’s the big hoopla over one more? Well, Bonhoeffer was both ordinary and extraordinary. He was an academic, a renowned theologian, a pastor who loved people more than he cared about how ‘good’ they were or whether they agreed with him or not. He understood that love was the most important thing of all….love for God, one’s family and one’s country. Bonhoeffer loved Germany and he was not alone. I came to realize that there were so many godly Germans that the horror of all that happened is more horrible than I could have ever realized because those German people weren’t that much different from you and me. I tend to see them all with horns and certainly the unadulterated evil that took place is more than I can begin to digest.

If history is to teach us lessons not to be repeated, then please, oh please, let us learn. Let good men and women bravely stand up for what they believe. Let feelings about mosques and those who think differently from us be viewed from a sense of love and compassion and not doggedly on what we think is right or wrong. A people divided will ultimately fall.

There is bravery and self sacrifice on every page of this book. There is faith and forgiveness and redemption shown in the words and the lives of ordinary people. There is raw evil and indescribable beauty. There is greatness shown forth in all its glory and there is proof that one man can make a difference.

I wonder what I would do if all that happened to Bonhoeffer happened to me. I pray that it would matter to me, that I would stand out and not blend in, that there would be something in me that made people feel closer and not farther apart and that I would welcome difficult things realizing that I was so inconsequential but at the same time, absolutely vital.

I hope you read this book and come away affected. We don’t allow ourselves to be nearly affected enough. -Norma


A Wok to Remember

September 11, 2010 by

Walk with me for a moment, won’t you?

We are walking...

Up the stairs we go…

And we're walking...

Follow me across the parking lot…

And we're walking...

What’s that on the ground over there?

What's that in the parking lot?

Ah, of course. A wok and a salad spinner. On the pavement. Outside our freight door.

A Wok to Remember

Are you missing a wok and a salad spinner? These two items appeared a couple weeks ago. They seemed rather sad sitting out in the parking lot, but we left them out there, thinking that surely their owner would soon notice their absence, and would want to swing back and pick them up with the minimum of embarrassment.

Unfortunately, it seems that the absent-minded owner hasn’t missed them at all so far — or, at least, cannot recall in what parking lot the wok and salad spinner were left behind. If you recognize these items, please alert the appropriate person. It’d be a shame to wait until the owner had a craving for stir fry to re-unite him or her with the missing kitchenry.

Rejected Titles:

Wok This Way
Wok Don’t Run
A Wok in the Sun
The Drunkard’s Wok
A Good Wok Spoiled
Salad Days (it’s really hard to come up with a good salad spinner joke)